I wouldn't call myself shallow by any stretch of the imagination but I do believe there has to be a mutual attraction for these things to work. I generally find myself more gravitated to girls that are younger than me, I think it's only natural, I'm over 6ft, strong & athletic, slim handsome white man. Open to any race, creed or body type. I do prefer someone who take pride in there appearance though.

I really want an OA who I can become part of their life, as they are part of mine. Support, assurance, congratulations, commiserations. Find me more attractive in the selfie from when I have just got out of bed rather than when I have got the angle and filter just enough to not look like who I am.

I'd love to find something longterm with someone, only looking online at the moment so don't have any preference to location, being in the UK though I can understand that makes it hard for any one not in the UK/EU area. My availability to chat is normally very good

It's not a deal breaker but I prefer to communicate on telegram. I would prefer someone who is also married or at least in an LTR. I'm an easy going, fun loving guy, please at least be confident and a little adventurous

Finally I would insist on a few picture swaps to establish if there's an attraction before we move to another app. So if you are uncomfortable with this or are just looking for someone to chat to anonymously I'm probably not the man for you