Hi there. I am a white guy in my 40s with a thing for South Asian women, and would love to connect if you are interested. I know it's a little crass or fetishistic, but it's just an attraction like someone being attracted to people with blue eyes or very tall.

We could message here either via pm or chat and see where things go. I usually prefer longer messages over quick chats especially in the getting to know you phase. Quick chats or moving to some other platform too quickly really seem to be a good way to let a conversation die out.

If you are local to Chicago maybe we grab a cup of coffee sometime to see if there is physical chemistry, or we could skip coffee and do something together like go record or book shopping or check out the Germane Barnes exhibit.

Me: 40s, white, not super tall, don’t have all my hair, slim, liberal, talkative but a bit reserved, and a generally kind person. I like music and chatting about it but can't play it. And I enjoy pretending I'm a capable human being.

Who im looking for: over 35, desi, would like to have conversations instead of exchanging three word messages for a day, liberal, kind, and confident.

I am in the US CST and generally able to chat during the work day and can send longer messages other times.

Love to hear from you if any of this sounds good. Also if you just want to chat and never meet in person that is perfectly cool. I may actually prefer that over meeting in person. I just like knowing new people and having new conversations.

Have a good one!