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36 (M4M) #Arizona - Beyond Small Talk: A Genuine Spark Wanted
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Honey_Oat is a male age 36 looking for a male in Arizona
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The weekend, here at last! This week felt like it had more overtimes than a playoff game, right? Wasn’t it just yesterday that we were lighting up the skies for the Fourth of July, and now we’re on a fast track to New Year’s?

So let’s skip the filler and jump right to the good part. I’m here looking for something real, someone who can spark the kind of banter that keeps you grinning like an idiot at your screen. I don’t have the patience for small talk or endless circles—let’s make it genuine, let’s make it real, and if the universe throws us a curveball, well… maybe this thing could step off the screen into something a bit more tangible.

Now, a bit about me. Married, gay, deep in the world of health informatics and data analytics (I know, pulse-racing stuff). Dog dad, paddleboarding newbie, brewery aficionado, and a hopeless true-crime junkie. Hiking? Love it—as long as Arizona doesn’t try to roast me alive. Theme parks, Crumbl cookies, thick bacon cheeseburgers, mini-golf—it’s date night in my book.

Let’s be real—marriage isn’t always a fairytale. I’ve been the one putting in the effort, and I’m ready for a connection where both cups are equally full. If you’re feeling the same way, maybe it’s time we refilled each other’s. Why not, right?

Location? Honestly, it’s about chemistry, not coordinates.

If any of this clicks with you, slide into my DMs. Let’s see if this could be the start of something unexpected, something that finally feels right.

Ideally, you’re married too, maybe even in the same boat. Gay, straight, or somewhere in between—all good. Just be real, bring a good sense of humor, and let’s keep it ghost-free, shall we? We’re better than that.

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a male
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