Hey There,
Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I live around the Saint Paul/Minneapolis area, but frequently travel to Eastern Wisconsin for work. Mostly Milwaukee, but also Green Bay/Madison area sometimes as well.

I'm in a rough spot in marriage and I won't go too deeply into it. My wife and I have been together a while. Recently there have been some cracks that have started to show around differences in world view and that has led her to be.... more controlling of what I should be doing when I have a free evening, who I should be able to talk to, who I should hang out with, and how I spend my free time.

There's a significant amount of... theological disagreement between the two of us, which is where a lot of the struggles stem from.

We've done counseling, but I'm feeling stuck and like I don't have much of a say in the decision making processes anymore. We've got a pretty dead bedroom, she's pretty judgmental of my interests both in and out of the bedroom, and I'm just looking for a friend who gets me, understands me, and feels maybe a little similar to me in their own marriage.

I'm 32, Married, dad of four, professional, successful, down to earth, tall, dark, and handsome.
I enjoy playing and listening to music, discovering new bands, reading, being active and outdoors either hiking, running, biking, or just walking around, playing board and card games, or just enjoying a night at a brewery or on a local patio.

I'm looking for someone who is interested in building a friendship and relationship, is interested in something ongoing and not just a one-off encounter. I'm looking for someone who cares about their appearance, (I'm not a supermodel, I don't expect you to be one, but I think some physical attraction is fun and important). I'm looking for someone willing to put the time and effort into making this work.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you if just to chat. Otherwise, good luck in your search and I hope you find what you're looking for.