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Thatās the nature of affairs, Iāve learned. Nothing lasts; eventually one side moves on. Usually itās quickāof the 20 women who messaged me from my post two days ago, one remains. Sometimes itās longerāmy most valuable affair on here lasted over 3 years. But it ends. And Iām not upset about it anymore.
People who want an affairāa true affair, not someone for whom to leave their spouseāunderstand that an affair needs to be the first to go when time is tight. If your husband is sick, your kids need support, work gets busy, all of those things demand affairs take a back seat. And, on the other side, when your affair partner gets busy, itās hard to wait. Especially when this subreddit can provide an endless supply (if youāre a woman or a man with basic literacy skills).
This results in āghosting.ā Though I hate the term. Itās so nebulous. If we talked for a day, and then you stop replying, is that ghosting? I donāt know. But I know people hate it but itās also a reality.
Thatās all to say that Iām trying to rid myself of these common issues. By embracing that these affairs are, more likely than not, spurious, we can actually embrace whatever time we have. Maybe this is the one that grows into something long term. But in the likely event it doesnāt, we can still enjoy the brief escape.
As for the standard shit, Iām a 36 year old lawyer who cheats. Fucking cliche, I know. Iām attractive to most with a runners body. But eye of the beholder and all that; Iām happy to send a pic early on another app.
Iām alone for the next few nights and the silence is weighing me down. Iād love a chat. Especially about anything beyond the standard stuff.
So send me a message. And ghost me whenever. Iāll appreciate the haunt regardless.
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