Hi there! And thanks for stopping in to read my post. Yes, this is a longer one. But if the title caught your initial attention then you should read on.

All these posts on Reddit. Wow! Each one so different from the next. Most are poorly written. Many just looking for sex. Tons of broken people. And others are just super strange. Right? But every once in a while you stumble upon something that hits a little different. Something that catches your attention. Something that resonates with you. 

I find this whole Reddit thing actually fascinating. I will confess that I find myself occasionally browsing the subs. Mostly for curiosity and a little entertainment, but always wondering if I'll come across a post that catches my attention so much that it moves me to reply. A lot of this depends on timing....when someone posts and is it even still somewhat visible before it gets squished to the bottom. So maybe there is something in the timing with my post and you viewing it at this moment.

Here's my story... I'm a very charismatic, attractive, thoughtful, witty, intelligent, fit, charming, and successful guy. I married much too young and for all the wrong reasons. And after the years the relationship has evolved into roommates and co-parenting more than anything else.

I decided to post because I'm looking for more in my life. I want to feel alive. I want to fill in the missing pieces and bond with a special woman who finds herself in a similar situation. I'm searching for an outgoing, smart, fit, emotionally mature woman who wants an amazing friendship first and foremost. But a secret friendship nonetheless. I'm looking for a connection where we can both be free and open to talk about and explore all of the things that have been pent up for much too long. A friendship with laughter and fun and travel and shopping and dining and intimate explorations.

I've experienced all of this in the past, and so I know it's more than possible. But what I've learned is that in order for this to happen successfully there must be a connection of the minds. There needs to be communication, chemistry, respect, trust, and mutual physical attraction. Too many people here are just looking for sex. They forget that the only way to have genuine intimacy and excitement is to have a solid foundation. It's much too important, and it takes a little time to build.

On the outside I'm a very normal, down-to-earth guy who is exceptional at communicating. I listen with intent and curiosity, and really try to provide a safe place for talking about anything. I have deep, long standing friendships. I am well read and well educated. I also have a terrific sense of humor and don't take anything too too seriously. Physically, I'm 5'8" and very fit. I know guys say they are fit but still have a big gut. Not me. I take care of myself. I watch what I eat and exercise 5-7 days a week. I would describe my body as athletic with strong legs, arms, and chest. I have all my hair, nice teeth, no hair on my back, and I maintain impeccable hygiene. (I shouldn't have to say that, but this is Reddit, and well...you know). My days can be busy with a successful career and all that goes into juggling an active life, but I will always make time. 

The right woman for me can appreciate all these things because it describes her too. You're smart yet curious. You can put on a cocktail dress for a night out or throw on your favorite sweats to cuddle up. You have a great sense of humor. You consider yourself fit. Maybe even hot. You're not afraid to express yourself. You value healthy living, but you'll enjoy a great desert. Let's split it! You're a working professional or perhaps a stay at home mom. And you're simply needing more fulfillment in your life.

On the outside people view you as having your act together. You have an exceptional head on your shoulders. You get it. However, on the inside and in private, you sneak away to these subs from time to time and look. You have a secret side that needs exploring. You want that beautiful heart to race again. You need to feel alive. And you can only do that with the right man. Guess what.... he's out there. And you CAN find him on Reddit. Maybe you just did. 

Look, I don't love that fact that I'm posting here given the reputation of the masses. But if you're anything like me, you understand there aren't too many outlets to connect with people in a similar situation. It's not like we can advertise in public. Discretion is paramount. But if I don't post, I won't have much of a chance in finding you. You really should take a few minutes to reply. You'll be pleasantly surprised to know that a guy like me is here. I'm a high value man. Are you my high value woman?

I look forward to hearing from you!