I’m an adorable smartypants who is critical of anyone in this subreddit who claim they are “not looking to change anyone’s situation.” Everyone here wants a changed situation. Acknowledge it.

That being said: No one’s leaving their marriage though, we just want happier situations.

I am Looking for a VERY discrete AP who is educated, in good shape, easy on the eyes, witty, intelligent & a bit taller than me! A man who likes a very feminine & curvy woman.

MUST be DDF, clean, tested and hygienic. Attraction is very important to me as I’m sure it is you. Early pic/stat exchange please and thank you. If you can, send a pic in your response. Partial face is okay. I just need something to help me determine if the attraction is there.

*Your marriage is not terrific. But you’re not miserable and hateful about it or her. But you also acknowledge that you need to be here. This isn’t just cake for you. If you are here because your marriage is awesome and exciting and you just need That Something Extra, keep moving.

*You’re a busy professional like me, with time to lavish upon this new friendship of ours. I do understand the need for personal time/not being readily available. But of course, there will be plenty of time for chatting & fun!

My ideal AP will be local-ish to the Edmonton area. I have no interest in an online or long-distance dynamic.

I like opinionated men, those who send walls of texts when discussing something they are passionate about! Am left leaning, but open to those with other political views, just be a decent human.

About me:

I am educated, warm,kind, curious and secure in my relationships. I HWP , in good shape, 5’2”, curves in all right places,attractive & non-caucasian.

I like to spend my time finding new spots to eat (foodie alert!) & places to visit,binge-watching my favorite shows, and just enjoying life. Perfect OPSEC.

Dealbreakers for me: Drug users. Heavy Drinkers. Bad Hygiene. Looking for online only or chat buddies. Spouse bashing. Don't have time/means for an affair. Men who cannot figure out how/when/where to meet. Looking to be put on a pedestal. Don't understand that being discreet is necessary.Those who are looking for multiple APs.Have lousy OPSEC. Can't come to Edmonton for meet-ups. Those who are younger than 35 years old, and no.. being an old soul doesn’t count!

To save everyone time- if you are single please do not message me. If you are travelling to my city for a few nights, please do not message me. If you are looking for a ONS please do not message me. If you send me a dick pic… I will report you :).

Hoping there’s still someone out there who is looking for the same thing I am. Don’t be shy to reach out! Messege me and we can talk about anything for a minute or everything for hours ♥️