When was the last time you felt you were able to truly be yourself?  Do you remember a time where you felt excitedly pursued and dreamily sought after by someone you’re infatuated with?

Maybe, just maybe, the wait for both of us is over.

I am the man you see in your community who, from the outside, looks like he’s got everything all figured out.  A devoted husband, an involved and invested parent, and seems to always put others before himself.  In reality, I have been aching and yearning on the inside to not have to hide my passions.  Over 20 years of hiding and not having my needs met.  No better time to change that than with a new year coming!

About me:

1. Naturally attentive, giving, providing, and tender to a fault.  There is a dominant streak within me.  Maybe you’ll want to see that side ;)

2. Passionate about life and lifting others up.  I whistle and sing all day long, and finding the awesomeness in others is a state of mind for me.

3. Physically, I am 6’, 280lbs, where my eating to dampen the hurt of neglect has taken its toll.  Be my workout partner and accountability teammate? :).  My athletic build and ability hasn’t gone away yet thankfully.  I’m just a thick and solid man. I have short, dark blonde hair, tempting and intense eyes, a warm yet mischievous smile, and a voice which is soothing and calm.

4. With being incredibly invested as a father, I am not consistently available after I get home for the day.  I don’t disappear, and I don’t go dark, but I can’t spend the nights endlessly chatting unfortunately.  Now, during the early morning throughout the workday is where I am very available to text, send voice messages, take pictures and videos, and have some voice chats during commutes or lunch breaks.

5. I am seeking a connection where a healthy infatuation exists.  I want us both to feel supremely desired, needed, and wanted by each other each and every day.  I was to invest my time and care into you.

About you:

1. Naturally attentive and giving as well.  Having the ability to show care and compassion vs self-centeredness.  Want to be there for me just as much as I yearn to be there for you :)

2. Have your passions and quirks ready to share!! lol.  You are perfectly you, and I want to experience everything that I can!

3. Be excited to share more than just words on a screen a few times a day.  Once we’re comfortable with each other, please be someone who eagerly shares your mind, voice, and self through pics/videos.  It feels very one sided if I’m the only one to give of myself past texting.

4. Share your laugh and smile with me.  Actually want to seduce me (after we click of course).  I’m taken for granted / advantage of at home.  I don’t want to feel used and neglected in an AP situation as well.  I truly do not have a type when it comes to body type or looks.  Your personality and sharing of yourself is going to make me want you in every possible way with immense passion.  Please don’t hesitate to respond if you’re worried you might be too thick.  I assure you, there is no such thing :)

If you made it through this lengthy post lol, and you feel we’re a good fit, please tell me about you when you respond.  I like to move to Telegram quickly if we hit it off.  Let’s bring in the Fall season with our dreams coming true!!