Winning a bronze or silver medal is awesome, but let's be real—I'm gunning for the gold in this wild world of Reddit. I'm searching for a woman who sticks the landing in every conversation, no matter how spiraled or straight-up it gets. She's an ace at any topic and isn't afraid to plunge into those deep emotional waters.

This special lady has the endurance to navigate through life's challenges and still come out undefeated. She's that rare gem who holds her own in debates, dazzles with inner and outer beauty, and knows there's more to a real man than meets the eye.

I'm a 55-year-old African-American gentleman, happily married and living life to its fullest. My days are fairly open, and I'd love to fill them with conversations with the right lady, ideally married and definitively older than 21. I'm searching for an emotional connection that transcends the everyday pleasantries we often settle for. Imagine moving past the mundane small talk and diving into the depths of our true selves—no masks, no pretenses. Let's cut through the superficial chit-chat and get real with each other. So, imagine witty banter, meaningful conversations, laughter that reaches our souls. I want to engage in discussions that make us think, challenge us, and bring out the best in us both. If you're tired of surface-level interactions, join me in exploring something deeper.

Just to be clear, I'm happily married and not looking to change that, and I'm not here to shake things up for you either. I just want to find a special lady who wants and craves excitement. And more importantly, who wants to share that sense of excitement with me.

I'm a hopeless romantic and you should be too. If you enjoy daily texts, messages, and voice notes (via Discord), we could be a great match. I value communication highly, so I'm seeking someone who's willing to expose their vulnerabilities and express their thoughts and feelings. I'm attracted to self-assured women who are comfortable expressing their sensual/sexual side. If you're emotionally open and ready to express them freely, we might just hit it off. And don't worry if you're a tad needy or clingy, aren't we all to some extent - lol.

To give you a mental picture, I'm 5'8", with a brown cocoa complexion, deep brown eyes, and short black/grey cropped hair. I've been complimented on my looks, but I'll let you be the judge. I don't have a ripped physique, just your average dad bod. But what I lack in muscles, I compensate with affection, romance, and sensuality. As for you, you should be attractive, in decent shape, have beautiful eyes, a radiant smile and be between 4'10" to 5'8".

If you've made it this far and think we might be a good fit, feel free to drop me a DM or send a chat request. But please, start with more than just a "hi" or "hello" otherwise I will not respond. I want to be captivated and eager to learn more about you! So, tell me a bit about yourself, and share your favorite comfort show, movie or the last song that got you up dancing. Or better yet, what event(s) at the Olympics have stood out to you so far.