Obligatory "I'm married". We're in an open marriage, but we're in a completely dead bedroom and roommate situation (both have been going on for the last 7-8 years).

Now that that's out of the way, let's get into it.

• I live in the Midwest and grew up playing football and boxing

• I'm 5'7", have a beard, and I'm definitely a bigger guy, but I have very strong weight loss goals for the year

• I always say I'm a big nerd, but I honestly am just a PC gamer and enjoyer of some nerdy things - most things Disney (Marvel, Star Wars, etc.), Harry Potter, and countless others

• I have an abundance of free time to spend getting to know you and that's not just at work - I probably have more free time at night/weekends than I do during the day depending on my meeting schedule

• I will simp hard af for you if we hit it off

• Actively losing weight (not just talking about it) by being a bit more active and cutting carbs. I'm doing carnivore, if you want to chat about that!

• I still go into the office during the week even though the majority of my profession works from home

• While I can text chat during the day, I'm available for voice chats at night/weekends, as well as typically being more available

What I'm Looking For:

• Open to long term if there's a connection

• Clingy is great. I love clingy.

• Under 45, but I admit I tend to go for early-mid 30s

• From the US/Canada, and ideally not in PST. It's not a deal breaker, but I have noticed that it tends to make forming a connection harder when our schedules are 2 hours off (I'm CST)

• Be nerdy. It doesn't have to be a classical nerd, but you need to be interested in something and love talking about it. I don't care what it is, but be excited and tell me all of the things about it no one else cares about

Honestly, just put in some effort and there's a really strong chance I'll fall hard for you. If we have a great conversation and I message you in the morning to say "Good Morning", it'd be nice to hear from you that day, not 3 days later.

The only hard requirement I have is that you use either Discord or Telegram.