These are essentisl details. I am definitely more than 8-5 texter. Emotionally Mature. I have no expectations. This will be whatever we make it with an emphasis on not changing situations.

American currently living in Montréal.

Best thing someone has said about looking outside the home? Be honest while bringing dishonest. At least we should be honest and open with each other while we are living a life many do not agree with. Have I done this before? Yes IRL and OA? Both Did I enjoy it? I did. I met great people and learned a lot about myself. Did I have any bad experiences? Of course. We all do. I wouldn't say it was bad, maybe just wasn't a match. One person burned me very badly and that's been rough, but life goes on, and I refuse to let myself be disrespected and disrespect others. Are you in a deadbedroom? No. Passion and libidos do not match. I have a very high drive and enjoy someone who can go from mild chats to spicy and back. I don't care if you are not in a deadbedroom. Maybe you are missing flirtation, passion, chats, attraction, or just something new and exciting.

I am genuinely attracted to 40 and 50 plus. I don't care about your fitness level. I like natural bodies. If you are happy and confident, I think that's sexy. I hate the term "Mombod," because moms have sexy bodies. Your gave birth like a badass and raise kids. That's insanely hot. You are strong!

I'm hoping to find a person that is looking to share mutual interests and effort. I rarely reply to other people's posts, so after taking a long break, here I am.

Ideally, we meet somewhere IRL like the same morning stop on our way to work, a gym class, or the park. We'd strike up a conversation and look forward to seeing each other. We begin to plan ahead and the conversations turn more person and exciting. Since this likely doesn't happen as often IRL, let's begin thar same thing here.

45, married, caucasian with a shaved head and neatly trimmed beard. Tall, laid back, sweet, funny, talkative, extroverted, and sarcastic. I love flirty banter but can talk about anything.

MUST be married, preferably with kids. NO smoking or drugs. That's not my thing. Looking for 40 or 50 (within a few years younger is ok), married with kids, and maybe you've done this before. I want a friend and lover but we CANNOT think we're changing our lives.

If you are thinking about replying, just do it. You never know what might happen