if you are someone who focuses on looks first , please turn away as we will not be compatible thank you

i have an r affairs post on my profile i heavily encourage you to read to get a better gist of me :)

hello, i am a 31 year old in LA in CA in the USA. i am single but am a discreet and experienced side guy. i am seeking to be a taken womans best part of her day. i want to bask in her personality and recognize value her as a woman and person, not just as some piece of meat.

i want to be a womans nonjudgmental ear. i want to hear about her day. i want her to vent to me. i want her to joke with me. i want to hear her frustrations. her likes. dislikes. interests. hobbies. her taboos. her kinks. her laugh that she hates to do out loud but i tell her i love it because i love her.

i want to be the type of guy a woman can rely on. i will do the best i can to be the man that she needs. she needs to understand i am a different type of guy. i am very cerebral. quiet, intense. but i am a deep thinker. i am not necessarily opinionated but can have an opinion on anything and leave it at that, nothing more nothing less. i enjoy light banter. i enjoy crude and dirty humor. i love the quiet gaps in conversations - because it means we are on the same wavelength. the quiet doesnt bother us, the quiet strengthens us. it allows us to harmonize.

i have a vast array of interests, hobbies, kinks, likes, dislikes. but we can save those for later. but if you must know, physically i am a husky guy. average looking. i love space, movies , music, photography and sports. i like walks at the park, cuddling and making out. i enjoy hitting golf balls when i get a chance. i love nachos, steaks/prime rib, chicken caesar salads and dr pepper. not a fan of extreme heat or extreme cold - i like it just right at around 74. i like true crime and paranormal.

but back to being the best part of your day: i have a 9 to 5. i have things to do sometimes. but above all else: youll be my main focus. i want to, to the best of my ability, be the man that you need that will focus on only you. i want to be bathed in your smiles and giggles. i want to wash myself in your jokes and brain. i want you to massage my body with your voice.

if you want to see if we will click, shoot a message. i dont bite too hard ;)