it’s like the title says, and if it’s not clear I have had an online affair before.

It was a genuine passionate emotional connection that consisted of texts and phone calls, very discreetly neither one of us got caught, but we both agreed that it would end when one of us needed to focus on our real life relationship. Unfortunately, she did.

We parted on good terms but I miss that connection.

I am 43, married with two kids and I live in Massachusetts, I’ve been a New Englander my whole life.

My ideal online affair partner would be a married woman in her 30s or 40s, I have a particular sweet spot for women between 34 and 37 but that is by no means a strict age range, anyone in this situation in her 30s or 40s is welcome to message me.

I am married but I do not feel that my wife respects me and I don’t feel appreciated either.

But I am not here to bitch about my wife, I’m not choosing to leave her either and I’m not looking to interfere with your marriage either.

What I am looking for is somebody that will give me butterflies and I will give her butterflies every time one of us gets a new message from each other.

Texts, voice calls, etc. Just an ongoing connection - it can be sweet talk, dirty talk or just talking about our day.

Just an ongoing connection and conversation.

And then when I say that, please don’t feel like that means you have to report back to get a specific time every single day, we have busy lives and would be doing this on the down low so we would both have to understand when the other one is not available of course.

So if you are looking for a genuine, affectionate connection through the magic of the Internet and mobile devices, with a guy that just wants to share happy feelings with a woman who might be missing that herself, please send me a message.