Bi Male married to Bi Female, both in our 40s. I'm out to my wife, but not really anyone else (more on this later). It was my wife's birthday this weekend so I booked us an Air BnB in Philly, dinner reservations at one of the many outstanding restaurants in the Gayborhood (this is what it is known as by people that live there, it's an amazing neighborhood), and then we went to a drag show at Tabu. Everything went really well. First, our dinner was delicious, and it was very comfortable and reassuring to be in a restaurant that was filled with LGBTQ folks. It just felt great. For me, aside from the food, the hilight was when I got up to go to the bathroom and I walked buy a table where a handsome man was seated at a table apparently by himself. I couldn't see his face when I was on my way into the bathroom, but I did see it, and made eye contact on the way out. We both smiled at each other and quietly said hi in what felt to me is the way you each let the other person know that you like what you're seeing. It was extremely brief, and he probably didn't pay it any mind, but for me it was the first time I ever really "flirted" (if you can call it that) with a person of the same gender. It felt so cute. I told my wife as soon as I sat down and she also very cute about it and happy for me. After dinner we walked around the neighborhood a while before going to the club for the show that was scheduled to start at 10. This was a huge late-night for us, because we have kids and never stay up that late. Anyhow, as we walked through the club we passed "Mr. X" the guy I exchanged glances with at the restaurant. *AND* as it turns out, we were definitely flirting because he totally did it again, and of course, so did I. And of course, I told my wife again and she knew it was special for me. The show was amazing/fun and very very funny. The host even "picked on" the two of us a little when she did a singing a skit, that included lip-synching accusing me of fathering her child! It was so much fun. Then later she did a skit from "A Christmas Story" and pretended to be Ralphie in the bunny PJs, and acted out the scene when Ralphie returns home blinded from eating Lifebuoy Soap. She scoured the crowd for tips and when she got to us felt my face to "See" me like a blind person would in a movie. It was really funny and even though it was part of the show it made me feel flirted with again, and I was super happy and content with myself. It was getting extremely late for us, so we left at intermission and went back to our place for wild sex and a good night sleep.

Anyhow, as a standard Bi person in a straight presenting marriage, I am now feeling "very bi" and questioning whether or not I should be out more publicly, but also wondering about my long term bi-ness. We dirty talk about MMF play all the time, we peg, and I do a great job going down on her cock. It's always fun. Part of me can't help but wonder if I will always be wondering what it would be like to be intimate with another man. It's not tearing me up inside or anything, but I didn't discover I was Bi until in my 40s and married for a long time. We are monogamous, and I would never cheat. I don't think I would even do anything without her being there. I have been very patient in warming her up to the idea of real life MMF, and I love our life and what we have. I think I will just be silently hoping that she comes around on her own and suggests that we give a BJ together. That is really my ultimate fantasy and would be so much fun to do together, but upsetting our relationship is not a risk I'm willing to take. Anyhow, I will remain content and if she ever says we should do it, I hope I'm still hot enough to turn some heads! :-) Have a great week everyone!

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