This is long, sorry..

We’ve been together going on 22 years, married 15. I’ve always wondered and the topic has been skirted a few times but today I finally said I’m sure your bi and I’m ok with it. I said we could explore the sexual urges but I want/hope our love/emotional connection stays strong. Our communication lines (and sex life) have become much better in the last two years and I want that to continue.

I’ve brought up bringing others in more than once (MMF), but he says we’re both not emotionally ready for that and I can understand his sentiment.

We (last year) started exploring pegging and tried once, but I don’t think he was ready and we haven’t tried again. We have kids and tried it when we had a night away in a hotel (but those kind of trips are few and far between). He explores himself periodically and says it’s been ok, but not fully what he’s hoping for.

For the record- I am not and will never be ok with sneaking around. That’s too hurtful. My heart is his, but that’s something I’d never forgive.

He knows this about me, and I do not doubt his devotion to our relationship. He has said he would only be interested in bringing in another person- if we’re both involved and it would be purely for pleasure, for the both of us. I am ok with that. However, he thinks it would most likely be years down the road when the kids are older and we continue to grow comfortable with ourselves and each other.. which is ok, I guess.

For the record, I find women beautiful but I don’t think I lean towards the bi tendencies myself. Also, as a side note, I enjoy yaoi (and other forms of hentai- it’s my thing).. he’s recently started watching it more.. futa (transsexual females) and monsters (which I’ve watched both as well) so it’s cool our porn preferences are more in line.

With that being said, what would be the best way to support this “new” realm of ours?