On my continued journey to be my authentic self, this week was being in Manchester in the UK to see my family for the first time in two years. And, as important, coming out to them. This really includes my mother, brother, and, sister-in-law. Also wanted to tell the nieces and nephews that I am close to.

I did it last night over a dinner with my mom and brother. My brother’s reaction was as expected, “been waiting 30 years for you to tell me this!” My mom’s was more of shock, which surprised me. I thought she always knew but that is probably my own projection.

Told them my wife and I are staying together, we still love each other, and are working through it day by day.

Still pretty emotional for me, but really happy to be out to my family once and for all. I have wanted to do this for so long and never had the courage.

Each day on this journey brings new fears, hopes, and excitement. Can’t turn the clock back and I don’t want to.

Finally, I can learn to be my whole me in front of my family and friends. That is overwhelming in so many ways but also so uplifting too.

Proud to be me and that I found the courage to do what I came here to do.