Well, it amazes me how quickly things develop with therapy and constant checking in and communication. My bihusband and I are getting on an app together (we go through it together at night when kids are in bed). It has lead to amazing sex-blowing him while he was talking to guys; understanding him more and more; him feeling like he is authentic; and not carrying the weight of guilt and shame. He keeps apologizing for what happened on the past, but I'm so thankful for the present and our future. I'm so glad he told me. As a bonus, I am completely turned on by him talking with men, I also enjoy the dick pics, and am more attracted to him. It also is surprises me how many men are cool with it, and have offered to let me watch if we ever want it to happen. What an exciting and fun new stage in our life journey!