After a few conversations over the weekend around prostate pleasure (which wife is now more accepting of me being into) and sexuality (spurred on by pride month) I finally openly admitted to my wife that I’m at least a little bi.

So far the reaction has been positive, she still stands by not wanting to see it or even being turned on by guy on guy stuff, but just vocalizing it out loud to her feels like at least some weight has been lifted. I feel like I will be under scrutiny for a little while as she adjusts to it, but that’s ok. For context, she is bi herself (hasn’t been with a woman in years though) and was raised Christian so a lot of ingrained homophobia.

At the very least, I’m learning to accept myself more and am slowly working at overcoming my internalized biphobia.