So update on a vacation talk I posted a couple days ago.

Wife came home and discussed our conversation of opening up our marriage with her counselor and close friend (separately). Counselor said we sound like we subscribe to relationship anarchy in which we determine what makes sense for us. A bit academic but does describe some nuances we discussed so all good.

Anyways we revisited our conversation about opening our marriage and she agreed I could seek out male or female partners.

She said she is not ready to start looking for a partner but gave her blessing to do so as long as I get on PREP which makes total sense. I told her same thing (not prep) as long as she is safe. I did admit that I would get sexual satisfaction from knowing or seeing her with another person (primarily a man) and she was very open to that idea.

I am shocked and on cloud nine in the most wonderful way this evening! So excited to see how we move forward!