Hello fellow bi-couples,

As my female partner and me (male) are very concearned about staying safe (we test every few months), I am interested in your policies:

Do you discuss potential new-lovers and their health-situation with each other before getting serious or do you 'simply' rely/trust in your partner to be careful when dating/playing seperatly? Do you get to 'veto' your partner's choice of lover?

Do you require an up-to-date STD check-up when you, your partner or both of you get intimate with a new lover? For my partner an up-to-date negative test is mandatory, whilst I am willing to trust somone after communicating openly (knowing there's always a risk).

Do you, fellow bi-men, cruise (e.g. @ bathhouses or clubs)? If you do: are you on PrEP? For the female-partners: Do you feel safe if your partner goes cruising or is intimate with men, who cruise?

Looking forward to hearing how you do it - thank you for your insights.