I'm married 15 years with 2 kids to an incredible wife. She is the love of my life and I wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our great marriage. I've only recently become very curious about my sexual limits and realized how flexible I am. I'm quite shocked to realize how much I think about playing with a huge manicured cock and desiring to be up close when one is cumming. When I'm at the height of my bi-cycle, it's hard to stop thinking about running my lips down the underside of a dick until it cums.

That said, my wife is pretty vanilla, and I know would be heartbroken with the discussion. She knows I enjoy porn, though not what kind, and accepts and gives me space for that. My question is, what would this community put on the sexual menu that scratches my itch, but is within the realm for a vanilla wife?

She did allow a cock sleeve once, though never again, which was a start. There has been some light cum play rubbing it on her body after I unload.

What I think comes next is a realistic but reasonable sized dildo and me putting in a butt plug for some prostate stimulation. Would love to know what else I could do to give me a rise but stay within her limits?