I (m) have been with my partner (f) for over 7 years. In that time I have never told her about my wishes to experiment with a guy (purely sexually). We have a great relationship and I don‘t want to risk damaging it by cheating or anything like that. We have used toys on each other, which she likes; and strap-ons, but that’s not really her thing, which is fine of course. I don’t know how to approach the subject and tell her that I want to try out more, as a couple or bymyself, but that it’s not because I’m unhappy with us or her. I realise broaching the subject at all has the risk of ending the relationship, but I just want to minimize that risk as much as possible. Has anybody have had a similar situation and any advice?