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Over the last few years I've grown very resentful of my wife, when I changed careers 8 years ago she was given the opportunity to be a SAHM and homeschool our child. She jumped at the opportunity. The first few weeks/months I didn't expect much. She'd just come out of a stressful job and understandably needed some time to get in a routine.

Months come and go, she continues to sleep half the day away, still keeping up with our child's schooling though, while the housework starts to slack a little bit. No big deal, we're all adjusting still, so I pick up the slack and tackle the things she "doesn't have time for" (to include basic stuff like cleaning the bathroom or purging nasty food from the refrigerator).

Over the years it's gotten worse and worse. Add a second child to the mix in 2022 and I'm about at my wits end. She had an ulcer last week and I took the week off work (despite the fact I'm the only paycheck) so she could rest/recover. I spent the whole week playing doctor husband, catching up on the chores she continues to neglect while taking care of her normal responsibilities, my own household responsibilities, and both children.

Our sex life is in the toilet as well, we used to be hot & heavy (who wasn't for each other at one point), even past the honeymoon phase the sex was frequent and varied enough. We never were super adventurous but would try new things a couple times a year., but lately it has been either just stick it in and go, or I go down on her and then we'll have sex. I don't feel desired/wanted anymore.

There's so much more to this but I don't even have the time to type it all out..maybe one day I'll get the time, probably not though, I'll be busy working 'till the day they put me in the ground so she can continue to just coast along through life.

TL;DR: Wife is a succubus who has no drive to do anything and I'm about at my wits end

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