We've been married for six years but the bedroom life is just boring to me. I have to move her around and choose every position every time. I've explained some desires that I've had (which took me months to get the courage to tell her out of possible embarrassment/rejection) and she said she was willing to try but nothing has ever happened. I told her I didn't want to force it or do anything she wasn't comfortable with or that made her feel awkward. Whenever I tell her I want to spice it up or ask her to be more involved she just tells me she's not a pornstar and doesn't know what to do. I'm not asking for anything outlandish just a little more participation and exploring any desires she may have or find out she has. Any suggestions on how I can do this? Again I don't want to force her into enything it's just getting so boring and routine.