Looking for advice. Been with my wife for 8 years now, and over that time our weight has fluctuated. Since 2017 we have been trying to lose weight, and I’ve managed to lose 60lbs and I’m now thin, and in my healthy BMI range. I’ve been trying over the last few years to get my wife on board but she doesn’t stick with it. I ask her to go on walks and jogs with me but she refuses. I ask her to walk our dogs or take our daughter to the park but it’s few and far between. She did a weight loss challenge and lost 20lbs last year but has since gained it back. She is approximately 70lbs overweight. When we first got together she was a little thick(which I LOVED) and absolutely gorgeous. Now....I’m not attracted to the extremely unhealthy version of her. I love her with all of my heart, and I’d never dream of leaving her, but my attraction is so much lower because of her weight. How do I go about this? I’d love for her to be healthy with me. I love her and want my attraction to her to be better. Any help/info is appreciated.