My husband has started doing things out of character for him. He’s been leaving for work way earlier than normal. He says he’s just sitting in his car reading or listening to books but he’s never had an interest in books or reading. Hes ordered a few books off of Amazon but I’ve literally never seen them so it seems like he’s getting them delivered while I’m at work and hiding them or he bought them for someone and gave them to them. Over Christmas he bought a bunch of different gifts that I never saw. Bath and bodywork’s that he said was for his works gift exchange. A bunch of TikTok things that he said were Pokémon cards. Something from one of the shoe companies that I never saw. I think it was vans. He said it was shoes for him but I never have seen any shoes. Since Christmas he bought Lego flowers and one of the things you put in a car windshield to block the sun. He said the Lego flowers were for our 5 year old but again I’ve never even seen them. Last night he packed up the leftovers from dinner into two containers. When I got up both were gone but he insists that he took both and is leaving one at work for tomorrow. He also went out with his friend on his birthday right after Christmas. He said they were going to one city but he had card transactions from another city that was 45 minutes in a different direction so it’s not like he just happened to drive through there. Am I overthinking all of this or would you think something is going on?

UPDATE I found proof. There was a birthday card from another woman in his car. I’ve kicked him out. He’s admitted it since he left while begging to come back for our kids.