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I'm in the hospital tending to my husband and he's been pissing me off!
I washed him a few hours ago. He told me to take my rings off during the process. I didn't want to, but I complied.
Bathed him, clothed him, lotioned him, and put him to bed.
I'm sleeping on a pullout coach. It's terrible but after 3 days here, I'm getting used to it. I wanted him to have someone with him to advocate for him.
When I get up to wash his face (at his request) I noticed my rings were gone.
I tell him and he says a staff member maybe took it, describes her.
I alert the floor only to find out...
He hid the ring and sent me and the staff on a wild goose chase for NOTHING, digging through dirty linen and trash like we don't have better things to do.
When he finally reveals whats going on to me, I'm astonished.
I tell him how inconsiderate he was to make us all look for something he had.
His reply, "you should be more responsible with your ring. Maybe we both learned a lesson here."
Welp, I tell the staff the TRUTH so no one is looking for the ring anymore.
Now, he's pissed at me for telling them about his mind games.
I've gone home to sleep in my normal bed. I feel kind of bad. I know he's in plan, but this felt like a power move and I feel like I need to set some boundaries.
I'm still checking in with the staff, but he's going to need to call them when he needs stuff now.
If that was my husband, he would be on his own in the hospital for the rest of his stay. When he asks why, I would say βLearn to take better care of your partner.β
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