My husband. He can never roll with punches or just deal with things.

For the last 2 days my body has been in horrible pain. I cant close my fists or walk up stairs at the moment. (Doctors app in the near future).

He asked me to start the car this morning, I told him gas was low and it's not going to stay started. He had ab absolute melt down. So just told him to 'just deal with it'.

When I realized he was having a pissy fit about it, I started to get the kids ready to drive him so I'd be the one hopping out to get gas. I usually find myself doing things that husband's should do, but I do them without complaint. I said 'well can I just drive you?' And he said 'no, I'm dealing with it'. He said it sarcastically as in trying to take a shot at me for what I said to him previously.

It could be -40° outside and I'll be the one cleaning off the snow from the van, or cleaning it out or taking out the garbage or standing outside pumping the gas..

I'm just so god damn annoyed. I'm always the one taking the reins for everything. He's 'the man of the house' until he had to do man of the house things. Then I step in because he acts like a baby about it.

Does your husband step up and do the things? Or do you find yourself doing his tasks as well as all of yours?