So, we have always had an OK sex life. It's always great but the frequency has never been more than about once a week.

Recently I really started turning on the love, before, during and after.

Talking about how connected I feel, how attractive I find her after we "Play".

Also releasing pressure along the way. "Hey I know we planned on playing tonight but if you're too tired then we can try again tomorrow".

This has really paid off and it's all true. I've just tapped into what I was really feeling just making a big deal about it.

This has given her space to let me know she's open and ready.

It has also in turn made me more relaxed and I'm sure that she can sense it.

Just thought I'd pass along what is currently working for us.