When you get ready (for any occasion) do you dress nicely or put on something that grabs attention? If you do this, do you do it for yourself and your self esteem or do you do it to make your partner excited? Is there enough passion or excitement after years and years together that you find yourself still doing something like this to make them want you? Or did that window close? If you ever do dress nicely or “sexy” is it to get other men’s attention? I was just sitting here thinking about how I try my best to look presentable for my wife but she’ll just put on some old shirt and sweats to go out. I understand being comfortable and I’m not saying she has to always wear something sexy or have lingerie (which she doesn’t own) under her clothes but once in a while it would be nice to go somewhere and have her looking like she’s proud. She’s not an ugly woman by any means. She’s very pretty, and I tell her this all the time. I don’t bring up her lack of presentation though because I don’t want to cause conflict over something so trivial. So I thought I’d come here and ask you ladies if you do it for your partner, for yourself, or for someone else? If you do it, is it appreciated? Or does it go unnoticed and you wonder why you did it at all? I’m genuinely curious. I probably have more context and back story but I’m just rambling at this point.