Wife went through Hysterectomy 5 months ago, now she is better she had been suffering from pain during her cycle period for the last 5 .years though been under medication so long, finally we decided we cannot hold on any more and went through Hysterectomy, she is in mid forties myself In early fifties and we both excercise and stay fit, however she seems to lack interest to get intimate and sometimes been without any activity even for 5 or 6 months at times and now I insist post which she tries to cuddle etc for sometime then back to same old pattern, she is also been stressed very much these 5 years now. She has stopped interest in penetrative sex well this started much before her Hysterectomy but now it still continues also does not show much interest in exploring in the bedroom, me on the otherhand is very much active trying to channelize all the energy into excercise, yoga etc and work but still I think man have primal needs to be fulfilled, I did think of straying but don't just believe in the mere fun act. Any thoughts, suggestions how do we navigate these trouble times.