I M 38 Wife 31. We have been together for 10 years Married 8. We have 3 kids, ages 7,5,3. We had a huge fight three weeks ago due to my anger issues and our poor communication skills. She told me she has not been happy since i changed careers 5 years ago. I changed careers because i was stuck in a dead end job and would not been able to support my family on that income. When we first got married she worked full time and when we had our first daughter we agreed she could stay at home and take care of our daughter. Fast forward to now and three kids total i am the bread winner. I work two full time jobs to keep our heads above water and she does help with the bills with her side business but i am killing myself trying to do this. So yes i am always angry and burnt out and come home to her and shes always upset and takes it out on me. I am going to therapy for my issues and offered us to go to couples counseling. We havent been intimate in two months, she ignores me all day when i am working a 24 hr shift, wont talk about any of this but confides in some other married man from some chatroom. I have always been faithful to her and love her and know i fucked up by not being there for her emotionally. She went on a 4 day trip with just the kids and when i asked how they are doing she said the kids are doing great and might be better without us being together. Im devastated I thought at least she would miss me being around but it seems she is much happier. Sorry long post and im all fucked up now.

TL DR :Im pretty sure my wife wants to leave