We have been married for 20 years. Going to hit our 25th milestone soon. Just after our marriage, we were so romantic to each other in the bedroom and outside as well. We compliment each other, kisses and also sensual touches. But those gestures gradually faded when we had kids. Due to family size grew we looked for more income jobs to meet the ends. During this time we lost the frequency of romantic or even naughty actions.. now kids are in college..so we are back in action..though we are getting old. Here is what we do

1. Sends message multiple times a day with love and with kinky and naught tastes
2. Kisses, hold hands in public, hugs
3. Try to find time for sexcation
4. Dinner nights
5. Couple massage
6. I do massage for her
7. Movie night
8. Cuddling nights
9. Vineyards
   

We were in the verge of divorce, but with the commitment for each other we had were able to pullout..

I can say we are strongly bonded now than before. We talk anything under sun...may be it because of the age or mutual transparency and trust we built