First off im here to only vent and get this off my chest bc if not ima explode.

I started a new job a few months ago and not only did I take on a new job I am a department leader. When I was being interviewed for the position I was lied to. I was told that they were looking for 2 ppl bc I had only 2 holes to fill. Ok no problem I can hire 2 ppl. First week of actually running it and finding out that I only have a crew of 4 ppl when I need 8-10 ppl! So needless to say since I took on a skeleton crew and a new job my schedule has been absolutely ridiculous. I have to work 6 days in a row to make sure ppl get their days off. I will work late and not get home till 8p just to turn around and be back at work at 4a. When I am able to get a day off I don’t want to do any house work bc how exhausted I am. Well husband decided he wanted to pick an argument last night, about how “I’m too tired to do anything”. He has a stay at home job and yes he is able to take care of a lot of the house and take care of the pool. (It was supposed to be my responsibility but bc of work I can’t properly do it) He just kept throwing everything in my face how if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be where I am! First of all I don’t need him to throw that in my face bc “he was well planned in his 20’s and I unfortunately wasn’t! “He’s had a cushiony life and I’ve struggled! He wanted to have a pitty party about how much he does for me and around the house! I looked at him and told him we are married! You don’t need to throw everything in my face! I’m over worked/stressed out and this will be my first full weekend off and I planned on doing a lot of catching up on house work! Then he proceeded to tell me how ungrateful I was and everyday when he does something I thank him all the time! That argument was unnecessary and all it did was make me pissed that he would even bring that up knowing the shit I have to deal with as a boss.