I (39m) got married in my 30s and had a very good idea of what I wanted in a spouse but as our marriage - which now includes kids - has continued on, it’s pretty clear that we’re not aligned on a lot of things, like personal and family goals; sexually and even how to spend our free time.

Yes, we’ve talked about it and, no, nothing has changed. We just have different priorities.

I’ve been feeling like I may have married the wrong person. I don’t want to end the marriage bc we do get a long at certain levels and I need to be around my kids every day. They’re my heart and soul, so that’s not an option.

Just a harsh realization that I could spend the rest of my life with someone who I won’t maximize life with.