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What are your thoughts on being in a serious relationship with someone (both with children) but waiting until the kids are adults to pursue marriage/move in with one another?
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Just curious. I’m personally not in a rush for marriage or anything, but I do really love my current partner. We both have a child the same age, but at the moment.. I can’t imagine moving in together. Our parenting styles are very different and our children don’t really have a big interest in one another (one is a girly girl and the other is a game loving and sports kid). We get along great and mesh well, but I think if it was to shift to living together while the kids are young… oh my, I can imagine the conflicts. He also has a larger family with lots of other kids and they hang out almost daily at each others houses. It’s cute, but I know it’ll be a huge adjustment and possible stressor for my son who’s an only child and doesn’t really have kids around frequently other than when he has playdates with kids from school.
Who knows that we’ll even last long enough to get to this point haha, but just interested in hearing some thoughts.

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