We have been together for 7 years married for 5 years, the sex is constantly getting better & we love adding spice. Recently we have been getting to know each other’s fantasy’s & talking about how to fulfill them if possible. Last night out of the blue she brought up the idea of a threesome. I have never previously suggested it be a part of our relationship but we have talked about how I have had that experience with my ex and how bad it sucked. We talked about it while we were having a foreplay session & it seemed to turn her on so I told her what I would like to experience in a threesome. She has brought it up again today and is definitely turned on by the idea & so am I to a certain degree because I know that road can end up causing damage to some relationships & I love my wife. Here’s my questions to everyone & those that have had similar experiences. How long did you talk about it before you made it happen? How did things turn out? Should we keep it as a pillow talk fantasy? How did you find the 3rd person?

Thank you!