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Could you stay married to someone like this?

When we were dating he (34M) denied being a conservative and masked a lot of his personality to please me (a 30F liberal).

Turns out, he likes Trump and pretty much all of the right wing ideologies.

to each his own, but a lot of his actions/opinions are not likeable to me personally.

To those of who who are liberal, could you stay married to someone who does the following?:

1) calls all Hispanic people Mexican

2) thinks racism doesn't really exist (if it does, it's just a handful of mountan people who are racist)

3) thinks global warming is a myth, refuses to recycle (threw my recycling into the normal dump for nearly a year), and liters constantly (just throws his beer cans on the ground)

4) thinks women should be the only ones who clean the house, even if both the husband and wife work full time

5) refuses to respect people's pronouns and (almost gleefully) thinks all gay people are going to hell

6) tells my 4 year old son he's not allowed to take gymnastic lessons because only girls do that

7) tells my son he's not allowed to watch my little pony (only girls watch that)

8) makes fun of "fat" women all the time (despite being considered quite overweight humself)

9) thinks white men are the only oppressed group and hates that there's "gay pride" and "black history" month.

The list goes on...

There are other serious issues in our relationship, but this alone I (think) could all be deal-breakers? However, my community keeps encouraging me to "make it work" despite this.

EDIT: if we do split, we'll have to split custody 50/50 more than likely

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