So my husband has never been diagnosed, but I think he's a pathological liar. He lies and gaslights me constantly. Like, probably 3 times a week I catch him in another lie. He lies about small things. He lies about big things. He lies constantly.

Yet, he's begging me not to divorce him even though I've threatened it for years because of this (and because his anger issues).

Is there any way to make it work with a liar? IMO without trust there can be no foundation. And without a foundation there's no love. How can I be emotionally vulnerable and feel emotionally secure with someone who's lied to my face so many times?

I tell people about this and they shrug as if it's no big deal.