Married 25 years, 2 children in early 20's. It started 2 years ago when my wife started pushing me away. She started seeing a therapist. Since then, I had some health issues as did she. She started going out for happy hour with girls but we continued going out as a couple with friends but not really as a couple. We both just ignored it. It grew to where she can't look at or speak to me. Fast forward to now, she suggested I fix myself. I didn't know I was broken but I don't communicate well. I am a provider and have always done whatever was best for the family and her. Over this period, she has changed her diet hair etc. She looks Great. We discussed a split and the next day I called her and said it would be sad to throw 25 year's away. She said she didn't know but to fix myself. That was a few weeks ago. Since then, I started seeing a therapist. I am trying to communicate with her wether when we are together or by text when I am at work. I asked her to go to a quick dinner (just the 2 of us), I was shocked and excited that she agreed. I tried to keep a conversation going about anything (except us) and it was like pulling teeth. I got one word answers. Rest of the weekend was busy so not much happened. I get home on Monday and she's got a face on and can barely get respond to anything I say. We finally sat on separate couches to watch TV and I asked her if she was ok. She said yes and didn't speak the rest of night. Lost...