This is an update on how my girlfriend decided last night to abandon any notion of a career for herself and instead give up her independence to become a housewife for me and serve the patriarchy. This is for all you kinksters who are interested in ethical TPE patriarchal dynamics and fulfilling traditional gender roles.

Little about me: I am an open minded and caring guy. I believe women deserve a right to autonomy if they desire it, but should not be shamed for wanting to serve and obey men. I am very fond of women, I have an immense amount of respect for the femme experience and genuinely enjoy spending quality time with girls outside of kink just as much as I enjoy consensually degrading, humiliating, using, and conditioning them to serve me until they are nothing but a brainless set of owned fuckholes with an unwavering obedience to my complete subjugation and control of their mind, body, and soul.

My partner and I have been working on our kink dynamic and roles for a couple years now, increasing her level of obedience and submission towards a 24/7 TPE, free use, and complete control.

She is such a sweet girl. She is service oriented, kind, hard working, intelligent, and loves to submit to and be cared for.

She wants to take on more of a housewife role.

But she has to focus too much on working her minimum wage job, going to college, having a career in an office, and maintaining her sense of independence. She constantly feels exhausted and anxious. She isn’t happy at all.

The cultural zeitgeist of modern feminism tells women they need to be independent and never give that up and to focus on a career or else you should be ashamed of yourself for wanting to depend on and care for a man you truly love and trust.

And like every woman she has been hurt and abandoned by men and traumatized, needing to put up walls and avoid being hurt again.

I’m a big fan of the work and sensibilities of u/Professor_Patriarchy and I shared some of the writing he has done on r/ProgressivePatriarchy with my girl. I had her read it and send me a response while she was on her lunch break yesterday.

To my disappointment and confusion she didn’t seem to understand it at all. She and I both have a patriarchy/misogyny kink and she wants to live a submissive lifestyle, but she told couldn’t understand actually living a patriarchal lifestyle outside of fantasy, that she could never give up her career.

Later that night when she came home we laid down on the bed together and had a talk. I told her I was shocked she didn’t understand what I had her read so I wanted to to go through it with her.

I explained that I have a fundamental belief that people and life in this world all have strong gendered energies they align with, some stronger than others, some more fluidly, everyone is very different. We’ve talked about this a few times before and have a similar understanding.

I resonate with my sense of masculinity: physical and emotional strength, stability, stoic, convictive, logical, patient, compassionate, protective, etc.

I made the observation that she is a very feminine being, something so fundamental to her personality it tends to poke itself out everywhere no matter how hard she’s conditioned herself to mask it. And I told her after nearly four years with her it is so clear to me that she craves strong masculine energy she can trust and depend on, but it’s a part of her she feels so ashamed and scared of. She doesn’t always dress like a good girl should, but I told her I see how much she’s attracted to displays of femininity, beautiful women, and girly clothes.

I reflected back how the environmental conditions of her childhood she’s told me about has made her feel the need to be an independent woman and focus on herself, the messages of modern feminism making her feel ashamed for wanting anything different.

I went on to explain why it then feels so important to cultivate a patriarchal dynamic for ourselves in order to fulfill our needs and desires. I made it clear that I want to run a patriarchal household inside and outside of kink, that I own her and is to be as much a slave and housewife to me as is possible and/or authentic.

I made it absolutely clear that she will always have a voice. While I expect to control every part of her life and for her happiness to be dependent on my pleasure, I am not happy unless she is truly fulfilled and happy. After all, I do love her and care about her more than anything in the world.

I asked her what she thought, she didn’t even know what to say.

I told her I’d like for her not to focus on work or career anymore so she can focus on being a housewife for me. I told her I won’t stop her from having a job (under my schedule) if that’s what truly fulfills her, but I’d prefer for her to at least work from home. I just don’t think work environments are healthy for my girl and I want her to have a fulfilling life everyday.

At this point her body pretty much collapsed and fully melted as she cuddled into me and starting bawling her eyes out. It only took an instant for her to realize it all felt so right and have all that weight lifted off of her.

Just like that, giving up her career in an office to serve me at home for the rest of her life. She acknowledged how much she craves to submit to the patriarchy and a masculine figure she can trust to care for her. She realized the shame and guilt feminism has made her feel about desiring this. How long she’s had to lie to herself about what she truly needs.

It was exhilarating and heartbreaking and one of the most spectacular life changing moments of my life. We talked for awhile about it and cuddled very intensely.

Today feels like the start of a new chapter in my life and I am very excited to continue creating a patriarchal dynamic for my girl and myself to find fulfillment and healing in. Not to mention all of the nasty, filthy, freaky, and depraved things we’ll be able to do because of it.

I’ll be posting a lot more updates in the future as well as some photos (I’m pulling the nice camera out to take high quality pics).