I'm a black sugar baby wanting preferbly a sugar mommy, but a sugar daddy is fine too. I want to make my sugar parent not feel lonely and also be able to support my hobbies/survival in life as a nuerodivergent person struggling with little support at the moment.

Although I want to make my boundaries clear: 1.it can be sexual but I have my limits. Talking about kinks, sex etc is fine. If it's online only I'm fine with taking some pics and videos, but no posting them. Live recordings are also going to be limited. I'm not always comfortable with that. Although I'm more than happy to meet you in person to hangout if you are in the same city (even have sex if you are clean, only for sugar mommies), if you are close by. No I will not travel alone to see a Sugar mommy or Sugar Daddy/anyone. Although if you want to visit for whatever reason that can be discussed after we are more comfortable with each other. 2.Understand I may not be available 24/7 but I will try my best. I enjoy taking naps and spend sometime cooking/gaming so during those times I may reply later. Otherwise I reply immediately. Additionally, please respect that I still want my autonomy and independence. I'm no slave or submissive, treat me as human and allow me to live, and enjoy my life. 3. I'm looking for a serious sugar parent. So it needs to be agreed to only take in PayPal, Zelle (preferred) Venmo or Cashapp, or if you are in the area in person through cash. I will not accept mailed in Checks or having to pay a deposit fee. I'm not an idiot and know how scammers social engineer to take money from sugarbabies. 4. Communication: I'm neurdivergent so it can be difficult for me to understand or get certain things. I try my best to be respectful and I ask you are considerate of my neurdivergency and be tolerant in certain circumstances. 5. NO manipulation. Just because I'm neurdivergent and I may be getting an allowance, don't try to force control by taking abusive measures. Although I may be vulnerable being nuerodivergent I'm not an idiot and I can recognize such things even if I may have trouble doing so. 6. Transparency please, I need to know where the money comes from is legit or at least isn't something that can financially ruin me. I've had people try to do that, and it just is disgusting. 8. I'm not a greedy person. Although I won't ask for more than I need, I certainly don't want to feel controlled or obligated to do things I'm uncomfortable with by getting a higher allowance or more gifts. I'll rarely ask to have my allowance increased. 9. Understand I'm into technology, cooking, art and video-games. I'll never be ungrateful for gifts but communication before a purchase is important as with those hobbies it can pose to be confusing. Also I am not a fan of surprise gifts. It's also to prevent scams and manipulation. More importantly though, we need to have some common interest and hobbies to make this connection long term. 10. Trust is built on time and actions. Understand that I'm in a vulnerable position and at a power disadvantage. Wanting immediate trust out the gate is a red flag. We need to build upon it gradually and in a safe way for both of us. I'll respect you more if you respect me and understand my traumas with people in power in the past due to my neurdivergency. That being said I won't rush to get an allowance. We can always start small and see how I manage the money. For the most part I'm good at handling money, I'm frugal and always try to spend below my means. At most I splurge on getting slightly more ingredients or food/snacks for extra food security. At worst I buy some PC part to upgrade or hobby kit. Those situations are rare though. My end goal will always to save enough to have a place to myself and invest a portion into ETFs, 401ks and similar to prepare for my future.