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45F - Looking for female friends to talk dating with
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candle43 is age 45
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Hi, all.

I know I’m older than the demographic here but /r/makefriendsover30 audience is quite a bit smaller — and I’m seeing a lot more older people posting here than I did a few years ago.

See, in May 2018 I made a post on this subreddit, ignoring the age difference, and started up conversations with 2 people I talk to to this day. We’re not fast and furious all the time, but I talk to one of them at least once a month for a day or so. This subreddit has been good to me so I’m back again, looking for friends I can ping and talk to about dating mostly to keep myself from texting the guys all the time.

Here’s a bit about me: I’m 45, female, single, no kids, one cat, and I live in a city. I’m looking to change careers from working for the progressives for 20 years. I smoke a lot of weed. I like movies and I’m trying to get back into reading.

I’ve been single for almost my entire life, mostly because I was uninterested in being in a relationship in my 20s and 30s. Even now, I’m more interested in making sure I have someone there to take care of my cat when I’m 75 and have a heart attack than I am about shacking up with someone in the throes of a midlife panic. I’m good with taking my time here.

I see myself being a good dating buddy for girls/women who are similarly childfree. Or maybe someone younger who is curious about the childfree life and wants to talk to someone who experienced it (and loved it). I don’t think I’d work much with females who are into the family-with-kids life as a goal. Or young women who are looking to plan big weddings, just not my thing.

Sound interesting? Send me a private message and let’s see if we click. I prefer synchronous chat, over Discord or Telegram or maybe something else once we see if we want to chat.

Here’s to hoping I get some biters.

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