I am a 36 male who really has only 1 friend. We have been friends for 18 years and he is the only person besides my wife who I feel I can be myself. My wife and I are going through some hard times right now and I would really like to find a women around our age who has had rough times with their husband. I just want to talk about the relationship and what has worked and didn't work and any advice a woman could give me. I am really only looking for a sounding board and someone who could help me talk with my wife in a non male way. I will probably be ignored because who really thinks a man wants to talk to another woman about his wife and their relationship to try to help get thinks right. Anyways figured I would try.