I'm empathetic, I care a lot about my self-respect, and I'm anti-social. I usually prioritize openness and honesty over politeness. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. The flaws they can't see in themselves have become increasingly more noticeable and annoying to me. I specifically think most people are too socialized, arrogant, and tend to think with their emotions rather than with logic. I would like to find people that share this understanding and feel the same way about it. Consistently, my favorite people have thought they're boring. "Boring" personalities come across as more genuine to me. Also, I'm an INTJ and have noticed that I get along best with INFJs and other INTJs.