Ok. Here. To understand me you gotta understand my journey. I'll try and be brief.

I used to suck. A lot. But then I looked deep within myself and threw myself into the deep end of the changes I wanted to see in myself. Where as I wasn't exactly unsocial I wasn't the most social. Changed that. Couldn't talk to women? Changed that? Thought I wanted to get my face sat on by a thicc goddess? I almost changed that, to be fair my first attempt was with someone lazy who didn't care about my well being. So they ended up nearly crushing me in my hubris.

Long story short. I sought my improvement out and paid for it in blood. I know who I am. Who and what I'm becoming. And they're fucking great. I mean shit I'm great now. So when I come here with standards and y'all throw a tantrum ( inbox has the proof) it's always wild to me. Cause even at my lowest point I wasn't that much of a chump.

Maybe?...

Anyway my journey of growth has lead me to a very obvious conclusion.

I want a best friend. The thing with that is. You read that and say "same"

And I mean. Probably. We both probably need one. But. I know what I mean when I say that.

I need someone I can respect. And the only type of people I respect are people that make an effort. For themselves. For others. For their dreams and goals. Who don't endlessly put things behind " I wish".

Who value people's time. Effort. Who seek to grow as individuals.

I could easily write a hundred novels about this. But I'll stop today I mean. Today who am I kidding. I'm gonna write like 55 other posts if I could.

That's just how serious I am about finding this person. I will never quit. I see that now. And even though its GIGA annoying doing it. I will continue. Because well. A best friend means that much to me.

What can you do?

Anyway. Some details then it's back to whatever it was I was doing?

I'm single. No kids. None wanted. I like kids. None wanted.

That particular thing confuses people

" Why do you like something and not want it"

Because I have enough awareness about my lifestyle and my goals?

Like. It's part of why I don't immediately jump into relationships. I don't see any value in one.

If I don't care about the person. I mean sure if you got big booty and all that going on. You're gonna get my eyes on you.

That's it though.

Non religious. I walk a metric fuck ton. And I imagine I'll only ever walk more I prefer biking though but last time I did that. OH MAMA. That was new pain. Good fucking stuff.

I read a lot. Write a lot. I do everything in large amounts. Let's just say that.

No married women. Please. 😅. Y'all always get so fucking weird. It's insane. Partnered women in general. But particularly married women.