I miss butterflies.

I can’t honestly recall the last time I truly felt butterflies.

You know what I mean, right?

You instantly connect with someone.

The conversation flows naturally and doesn’t feel like a job interview.

You chat for hours and lose all track of time.

You chat, you laugh, maybe you flirt a little.

You’re excited to hear from them and share your day, good and bad.

It doesn’t matter who texts who because you have that strong a connection

You share your dorky playlists.

You’re making plans to meet and have a really good vibe about the whole thing.

Miss that as well? Read on!

About me:

Aging hopeless romantic on Long Island trying to find true love in a sea of ghosts and fakes and bots.

I’m 6 feet tall, charming, very funny, bears a resemblance to Bronson Pinchot. I work in healthcare and IT and volunteer for local cat rescue groups.

I love animals, have 6 cats plus one I’m fostering, and often prefer cats to people. I’m a lifetime New Yorker and grew up in Brooklyn. I might still have an accent.

I host a podcast on cats called Shelter Cats that’s growing quite nicely. If you have cats maybe I’ll even have you on as a guest!

You want to chat, get to know me, and you’re not a bot. I will know if you’re game.

You want to see about building a real friendship with me. Like an actual friendship where we meet and do fun things.

I prefer that you’re on the east coast but I’m open minded, as long as you’re from the US.

You’re consistent.

You know how to have a conversation. Meaning you say more to me than “hey.”

You’re not the type of person who ghosts. I can’t stress this point enough. Sometimes things don’t click but have the decency to say so.

Sound good? Reach out and say hi!

Meow!