I'm 30 y/o, former film maker turned IT wizard with a dry sense of humor that's marinated in goofiness. I am well spoken, a hard-worker, a good listener and a introspective introvert who has a tendency to think deeply about things. Friendly observers have regarded me someone that's kind, intelligent, really decent, organised, diplomatic and sincere - But please feel free to take that for what it's worth. A non-smoker and rare drinker who values honesty almost to a fault, reliability, kindness and (emotional) intelligence.

So, I lost my dad not too long ago due to an aggressive illness and I've been feeling very lonely lately. Outside of work, I don't really have anyone to talk to and spend most of my time at home with mum. While I consider myself good at maintaining and participating in dialogue, I don't have a lot to talk about these days or get up to much in the evenings... I dance to jazz on occasion, but taking a bit of a break from that. I'm rarely found in the pub, but I sometimes enjoy a glass of whiskey, rum or cider with dinner at home or in good company. I'm also contemplating about the Steam Deck and whether I should bide my time for a refurbished OLED or settle for an LCD panel... I've applied for an opportunity to move up in the world of work and the team seem to really want me there which is nice.

Connecting with new people offline has been quite challenging due to grief and a lot of folk on the online dating apps seem to be looking for a 'spark' as opposed to a slow burner. At the moment I'm seeking good company to help focus my mind off things. Ideally patient, kind, and understanding folk who are okay with taking things slow.