Hey peoples! My partner and I are looking to explore and broaden our sexual growth. We are wondering if becoming part of the swinger community is a good fit for us. Maybe you could offer some advice.

About us 45m and 50f. Her: was in a polyamorous marriage. Was not a fan because of husband lying, not following rules, and was pressured into uncomfortable encounters. She wants another woman to join us with the stipulation that there is no penetration on my part. Playing and possible oral depending on her comfort level is ok. She may be open to another man there (on the fence) but also not interested in being sexual with him at this time. She likes to watch and be watched. She has no interest in being emotionally involved with anyone but me.

Me: I’m utterly devoted and in love with this woman. I’m a guy who thinks the more the merrier, but I’m also very respectful of her wishes and comfort level. We are very open and honest with each other, and have great communication skills with each other. As well as incredible sex. I also have no interest in being emotionally involved with anyone but her.

Since we live in Maine, I wanted to ask you folks if you think exploring the swinging community here would be a good fit for us (her suggestion) or if you think there may be another option more suited to our desires.

Thank you in advance for any replies. And bless your heart if you took the time to read this!