About me: I'm a male in my mid-40s, tall, and average body-type. I live in a low CoL area within the US. I make above the median wage. I am frustrated with the domestic dating scene because it feels like every woman is entitled/spoiled and sometimes even disrespectful. I'm not talking like 1950s disrespectful, I'm talking about telling you they will sleep with other people ("I'm poly") and I've even had girls get dude's digits while I was right there. This is not all girls, obviously, but it feels like that's all that's left in the dating pool.

What I'm looking for: I don't have a strong weird preference where it MUST be one specific type. Physically, I prefer black or hispanic, but Jewish and Indian girls are cute too. TBH, I'd be okay with some eastern European women or Asian, too... just pointing out that some types appeal to me more than other types if that's relevant. Values-wise: I want someone I can trust. Loyalty, kindness, and common sense. Finally, sex is very important to a relationship in the US. I would hope a foreign woman wouldn't be as promiscuous, but they should at least be willing to be intimate and willing to experiment. The reason I say this is because I met a girl from Africa who was here to meet another dude (it didn't work out for them). We dated for half a year and physical touch was almost off-limits. She treated holding hands like I was asking her to lick my bootyhole. Investing time into someone that is uncomfortable being intimate would be very frustrating.

Also, I only speak English. I know a very very tiny amount of Spanish, but not enough to carry on meaningful conversations.

Would international dating make sense for me? Am I too picky? Are there things I should do before looking for a mail order bride?